Struggling with being a People Pleaser?

Have you ever struggled with feeling the stress and anxiety of trying to please everyone around you? You definitely aren’t alone. Today on The Morning Thing, we shared 7 powerful tips from the Positivity Blog that can help you stop this unhealthy habit and replace it with a more positive, confident mindset!

Click HERE to read the full article

  1. Realize that with some people it isn’t about you and what you do (no matter what you do)
  2. Learn how to say no
  3. Reminder: People don’t really care that much about what you say or do
  4. Learn how to handle criticism and verbal lash outs (and the fear of that)
  5. Set boundaries for yourself
  6. Strengthen your self-esteem
  7. Keep your focus on what YOU want out of your life

How is the conversation at your dinner table?

The Morning Thing talked about communication on today’s show.
We want to help you spark conversations and connections at your dinner table.

Focus on the Family has created a list of 50 questions to ask your kids at dinner. These questions can help establish a foundation of trust and love to help your kids grow. Click HERE to read the full article.
Check out the list below. The questions are divided up into age groups! Try a few tonight and see what happens.

How is your mental health today?

Did you know that May is Mental Health Awareness Month? Today, the Morning Thing shared some insight from Crosswalk.com– 10 ways that we can improve our mental health.

Click HERE to read the full article

  1. Pray
  2. Journal
  3. Lean on your community
  4. Eat well
  5. Read your bible
  6. Practice gratitude
  7. Exercise reguarly
  8. Practice your spiritual gifts
  9. Rest
  10. See a Doctor

Wherever you are today, please remember that God loves you (John 3:16) and has a plan for your life.

    The Morning Thing kicks off Mom’s Week!

    This will be a special week on The Morning Thing. Today, we kicked off Mom’s Week – a week to honor and encourage Moms at all stages of life.

    Today, we shared 5 ways to be a mentally strong Mom. Click HERE to see the full article from imom.com

    1. Empower yourself.
    To be a better mom and mentally strong in trying times, revise your default phrases. When you’re stressed or challenged, try these instead: I’ll rise above this. I won’t let this bother me. I’m human. I’m gonna do the best I can.

    2. Be content with who you are.
    Comparing ourselves to others in person or on Instagram steals our joy. Self-worth is built on contentment with who you are. If you want to be a better mom, start with identifying your own wonderful qualities instead of comparing yourself to others. Are you a good listener? Are you crafty and creative? Are you the best at making your kids laugh.

    3. Let your mind wander.
    Instead of scrolling your phone when you have downtime, try turning inward. Think about your experiences and look for solutions to your problems. Building mental strength takes effort. Sometimes that means facing the hard or challenging thoughts we’d rather choose to avoid. But the payoff comes with being a more thoughtful mom.

    4. Be on the lookout for progress.
    In this moment in your life, you may feel frustrated with your child. But instead of holding her to standards you’ve read about or seen in your friend’s child, shift your focus to small, measurable goals. You’ll not only be a better mom, but you’ll build mental strength because you’re feeling hopeful rather than defeated.

    5. Lay your head down more.
    Getting more sleep will help you be mentally strong on those days when your kid refuses to get dressed or your teenager blames you for not waking him up for school. When you’re sleep deprived, you’re much more likely to lose your cool. Stixrud and Johnson say, “[S]leep deprivation decreases your flexibility, weakens your ability to see things in context, and impairs your judgment.” Getting a good night’s sleep can help deliver the patience we need in a heated moment.

    imom.com also has 7 quick prayers of encouragement for moms. Print this one off! 🙂

    Want to know how to relieve your stress? Check out our MT Blog!

    Today, The Morning Thing celebrated Stress Awareness Month by sharing simple ways that you can relieve your stress.

    Take a moment and look through this great advice from healthline.com

    Click HERE to read the full article!

    1. Get more physical activity 

    If you’re stressed, moving your body consistently may help reduce stress levels and improve mood.
    If you’re currently inactive, start with gentle activities such as walking or biking. Choosing an activity that you enjoy may help increase your chances of sticking to it in the long term.

    2. Eat a balanced diet 

    Your diet affects every aspect of your health, including your mental health.

    Minimizing your intake of highly processed foods and beverages and eating more whole foods can help ensure your body is properly nourished. In turn, this may improve your resilience to stress. Whole food options can include:

    • vegetables
    • fruits
    • beans
    • fish
    • nuts
    • seeds

    3. Minimize phone use and screen time  

    While smartphones, computers, and tablets are often necessary, using them too often may increase stress levels.

    Spending too much time in front of screens is associated with lower psychological well-being and increased stress levels in adults and kids.

    Furthermore, screen time may negatively affect sleep, which may also leadTrusted Source to increased stress levels.

    4. Practice self-care

    Setting aside time to practice self-care may help reduceTrusted Source your stress levels. Practical examples include:

    5. Try journaling

    Journaling may help reduceTrusted Source stress and anxiety and provide a positive outlet for your thoughts and emotions.

    You can also try a guided journal if you’d prefer more targeted, expressive writing.

    6. Reduce your caffeine intake

    Caffeine is a chemical in coffee, tea, chocolate, and energy drinks that stimulates your central nervous system.

    Although coffee has health benefits in moderation, it’s recommended to keep caffeine intake under 400 mg  daily, which equals 4–5 cups (0.9–1.2 L) of coffee.

    Still, people sensitive to caffeine may experience increased anxiety and stress after consuming less caffeine than this, so it’s important to consider your tolerance.

    7. Spend time with friends and family

    Social support from friends and family may help you get through stressful times and cope with stress.

    Having a social support system is important for your overall mental health. If you’re feeling alone and don’t have friends or family to depend on, social support groups may help. Consider joining a club or sports team or volunteering for a cause that’s important to you.

    8. Create boundaries and learn to say no

    Not all stressors are within your control, but some are. Putting too much on your plate may increase your stress load and limit the amount of time you can spend on self-care.

    One way to help reduce stress and protect your mental health may be to say “no” more often. This is especially true if you take on more than you can handle because juggling many responsibilities may leave you feeling overwhelmed.

    Being selective about what you take on — and saying “no” to things that will unnecessarily add to your load — can reduce your stress levels.

    9. Avoid procrastination

    Another way to take control of your stress is to stay on top of your priorities and avoid procrastinating when you aren’t feeling stressed.

    Procrastination may harm your productivity and leave you scrambling to catch up. This can cause stress, which negatively affects your health and sleep quality. It’s also true that you may be more likely to procrastinate in times of stress as a coping mechanism.

    If you find yourself procrastinating regularly, it may be helpful to make a to-do list organized by priority. Give yourself realistic deadlines and work your way down the list. Sometimes, adding an item to the list may help you feel better about it, even if it doesn’t get done immediately.

    Work on the things that need to get done today and give yourself chunks of uninterrupted time. Switching between tasks or multitasking can be stressful.

    10. Take a yoga class

    Yoga has become a popular method of stress relief and exercise among all age groups.

    While yoga styles differ, most share a common goal — to join your body and mind by increasing body and breath awareness.

    12. Cuddle

    Human touch may have a calming effect and help you better cope with stress. These types of contact may help  release oxytocin and lower cortisol. In turn, these effects help lower blood pressure and heart rate. Both high blood pressure and increased heart rate are physical symptoms of stress.

    13. Spend time in nature

    Spending more time outside may help reduce stress.

    Studies show that spending time in green spaces such as parks and forests and being immersed in nature are healthy ways to manage stress.

    Hiking and camping are great options, but some people don’t enjoy — or have access to — these activities. Even in an urban area, you can seek out green spaces such as local parks, arboretums, and botanical gardens.

    14. Practice deep breathing

    Mental stress activates your sympathetic nervous system, sending your body into fight-or-flight mode.

    During this reaction, stress hormones trigger physical symptoms such as a faster heartbeat, quicker breathing, and constricted blood vessels.

    Deep breathing exercises include:

    Deep breathing aims to focus your awareness on your breath, making it slower and deeper. When you breathe in deeply through your nose, your lungs fully expand, and your belly rises. This helps slow your heart rate, allowing you to feel at peace.

    15. Spend time with a pet

    When you cuddle or touch your pet, your body releases oxytocin — a hormone linked to a positive mood.

    Having a pet may also help relieve stress by giving you purpose, keeping you active, and providing companionship.

    16. Consider supplements

    Several vitamins and minerals play an important role in your body’s stress response and mood regulation. As such, a deficiency in one or more nutrients may affect your mental health and ability to cope with stress.

    Some studies show that certain dietary supplements may help reduce stress and improve mood.

    For example, your magnesium levels may deplete when you’re chronically stressed.

    Other supplements, including Rhodiola, ashwagandha, B vitamins, and L-theanine, may also help reduce stress, though more research is needed to understand their potential benefits better.

    However, dietary supplements may not be appropriate or safe for everyone. Consult a healthcare professional if you’re interested in using supplements to help relieve stress.

    The bottom line

    Although stress is unavoidable, being chronically stressed takes a toll on your physical and mental health.

    Fortunately, several evidence-based strategies can help you reduce stress and improve your overall psychological well-being.

    Exercise, mindfulness, spending time with a pet, minimizing screen time, and getting outside more often are all effective methods.

    MVNU Women’s Auxiliary welcomes Sheila Walsh to the 2024 Conference

    Shelia Walsh will be the speaker featured at the MVNU Women’s Auxiliary Spring Conference.
    She is an accomplished author, Bible Teacher, and Television host.

    WNZR’s Alyssa Sidle had the chance to chat with Sheila Walsh.
    She shared an update of what she’s been up to in 2024. She also shares about her new book, ‘Holding On When You Want To Let Go’.
    Click HERE to hear the full conversation.

    Shelia speaks about finding balance in the midst of everything she’s a part of, including speaking, writing and hosting numerous TV shows for TBN. She says that it’s important to remember that being busy doesn’t necessarily mean being productive, and that you have to focus on taking sabbath.

    Shelia gives a small preview of what to expect at the conference this weekend.

    Shelia talks about how we can pray for her and her husband Barry and their ministry.

    Tickets are still available for this weekend’s conference.
    Tickets can be purchased at the door for this event.
    Two day tickets are $45 and one day tickets are $25.

    Conference Schedule:
    Friday, March 15
    5:30-7:00 p.m.   Registration
    7:00-9:00 p.m.   Friday Session

    Saturday, March 16
    8:00-9:00 a.m.    Registration
    9:00 a.m.-noon   Saturday Sessions

    Click HERE for more information on MVNU Women’s Auxiliary. You can become a member this weekend!

    The United Way of Knox County shares their 2023 Annual Report

    The United Way of Knox County hosted their annual meeting and donor recognition lunch on March 7th.
    They shared highlights from the 2023 Campaign and 2023 Annual Report.

    WNZR’s Marcy Rinehart talked with Lori Jones Perkins, Executive Director.
    Click HERE to hear their full conversation.
    Lori shared some outstanding stats:
    – Only 1.06% of pledges are unpaid (that return is amazing)
    – 85% of donations go directly to support their partner agencies
    – Less than 15% is used for administrative costs

    She also talked about the process of how organizations apply to become a partner agency and receive funds from the United Way. They have a Community Impact Panel that listens to the presentations and gives scores and comments on each organization. These reports go to a Community Investment Committee that makes allocation recommendations based on the reports from the Community Impact Panel. Then the full United Way board votes for the final allocations.

    Lori also talked about the accountability of the United Way.
    The annual report for 2023 is available to pick up at the office. It will be shared on the website soon – uwayknox.org
    She talks about how every dollar matters and makes a difference.
    Lori mentions how we will see the United Way out more in the community in 2024!

    Marcy also talked with Halle Krajenski, Program Director for the United Way
    Click HERE to hear their full conversation.
    Marcy and Halle talk about the three pillars for United Way funding:
    Health: In 2023 United Way invested $316,930 in 13 Health Programs with 9 different partner agencies.
    Education: In 2023 United Way invested $155,722 in 8 Education Programs with 7 different Partner Agencies
    Financial Stability: In 2023 United Way invested $201,300 in Financial Stability Programs with 7 Partner Agencies

    Halle also shared an exciting report about other United Way projects:

    • The Imagination Library was started by Dolly Parton, to give children reading and literacy skills. We are at 61% rate of Knox County children participating in the program. In 2023, 27,038 books were delivered in 2023.
    • Crunch Out Knox County – 552 4th graders were able to engage in a 6-week program learning about making healthy choices for life.
    • There are 3 after-school programs at East, Dan Emmett, and Pleasant Street Elementary schools providing homework help and enrichment activities
    • Free Tax Preparation Assistance – United Way completed 551 returns for 2023

    Stay connected at the website – uwayknox.org (it is in the midst of changes)
    Social Media – United Way of Knox County
    Office – 305 East High St. in Mount Vernon

    You can give on the website or mail a check to the office.
    Scroll down to see some exciting numbers shared in the 2023 Annual Report.

    Want to try a NEW recipe for 2024? The Morning Thing is here to help!

    This week, The Morning Thing celebrated trying NEW things in the NEW year. All week long, we shared fun activities to try in 2024.

    Many of us want to eat healthier, it is one of the top New Year’s resolutions.
    We all want to spend less time in the drive-thru and more time around the dinner table with our family and friends.
    We are excited to link you to 18 different recipes that you can try in 2024! The editors and staff members of Southern Living Magazine came up with a list of the recipes that topped their must-make lists of 2024. Click HERE to see the full list!

    Here are the recipes that Marcy and Josiah talked about this morning.

     Chicken Salad

    Cheddar Cheese Straws

    Air Fryer Sweet Potato Fries

    Million Dollar Spaghetti

    Honey Chai Granola

    Chocolate Chip Pie

    Happy New Year from The Morning Thing

    Today is special! It is a fresh start for a New Year with new possibilities and opportunities.

    Today on the show, Marcy Rinehart shared some ways that you can celebrate this special day.
    Click HERE to see ways to celebrate the occasion from Good Housekeeping.

    Some of our favorites include:
    – Go to the Movies
    – Start a New Book
    – Treat Yourself to an at Home Spa Day
    – Binge a TV Marathon
    – Cheer for Your Favorite College Football Team
    – Check out a Parade
    – Try a Good-Luck Dish
    Click HERE for a list of 8 New Year’s Foods to Bring Good Luck. (This list will still work for 2024)

    We also talked about resolutions on the show. New Year’s Resolutions can be hard to keep sometimes. We shared 10 tips that will help you keep them this year.
    Click HERE to see the complete list and read the full article from Very Well Mind.

    1. Choose a Specific Goal
    2. Limit Your Resolutions – Focus on One Goal at a Time
    3. Put Time Into Planning – Make a Detailed Plan
    4. Start With Small Steps – Small Steps Lead to Success
    5. Avoid Repeating Past Failures
    6. Remember That Change Is a Process
    7. Get Support
    8. Renew Your Motivation
    9. Keep Working on Your Goals – Keep a Resolution Journal
    10. Learn and Adapt


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