Today’s show (8/24) kicked off a Week of Encouragement for you and your family!
Today, we shared 52 practical and thoughtful ways to encourage others! These tips from www.anextraordinaryday.net will give you a great plan to spread some encouragement to everyone around you.
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52 Practical and Thoughtful Ways to Encourage Others
- Who do you love? Tell your friend or family member you do. We all need to hear that we are loved.
- Cheer up one who is discouraged with a hug, spending time with her, sharing truth, giving hope, telling a joke.
- Encourage someone beginning a new job with the latest motivational or business book in hardcover or on Kindle.
- Make it a point to do what is good for all. People notice and appreciate it when you put others’ needs before your own.
- Some people are most encouraged by acts of service; rake leaves for an elderly neighbor, plant a porch pot and keep it watered, take the garbage to the street each week and return the empty can to the garage after pick-up, walk the dog.
- Spouses need encouragement. Leave “Post-it” notes with words of gratitude and love thoughts in special places.
- Remind one who is struggling in a relationship that God loves each of us with an everlasting love. He never quits on us, he never gives up on us.
- Love on your spiritual leaders regularly, by sending her a card or note in the mail, asking him to breakfast or lunch, or offering your time in a helpful way.
- Be patient with the clerk at the store, especially when there is a long line and challenging customers. Offer an additional word of thanks.
- Look out for a co-worker. Everyone needs someone to be in their corner, to have their back.
- Pray for someone when they share a hurt or burden. Right then. People are more blessed when you pray with them immediately, rather than saying I’ll be praying for you.
- Do a task normally done by your partner. Just because.
- Listen to a young person and value their ideas and opinions.
- Choose to live a life of character and integrity. It encourages others to stay the course and model your example.
- Give a gift handmade by you.
- Encourage a friend to put her hope in God who richly provides everything for our enjoyment.
- Pick up the phone and take time to listen and encourage someone who lives far away. Don’t do all the talking.
- For the one out of work, invite them to dinner, send a gift card to the grocery store or gas station (anonymously?), send a special food gift like Omaha Steaks.
- Send a short note on Facebook or text message a friend with a few encouraging words.
- Tell your boss, your pastor, or other leader that you appreciate him.
- Validate the one you’re speaking with; the one who is sharing their heart may be feeling a lack of self worth. It’s a wonderful thing to be validated by a person you truly like and admire!
- Freely say thanks for every kindness extended your way.
- Do you know someone who is going through rough waters? Secretly send them a card or note everyday for a week.
- Is there a young couple you know who does not have the luxury of family nearby? Offer to watch their children so they can accomplish a project or go shopping. Take it farther and give them a gift card to a restaurant and care for their children while they are out.
- People rarely get personal mail delivered anymore. Write or type a long or short letter or note of encouragement and put it in the mail.
- Let a parent know that you notice their positive parenting.
- Remind the one who feels alone in their battle of Jesus’ promise, “I will never leave you….”
- Have a few small gifts on hand to give someone, just because.
- Be quick to listen and slow to talk. Sometimes, the best encouragement is a listening ear.
- Let your friend know you pray for her regularly.
- Write love letters.
- Secretly send a gift card for a coffee at Starbucks to the coffee lover with a sweet note.
- Be encouraging to all you meet. You never know who is having a hard day.
- Many are starved for human touch. A hand on the shoulder or similar touch, used with caution, is encouraging. For some, a hug could be life-changing.
- Speak life-affirming words. What are the good qualities you recognize in your friend? Tell them what they are and how they live out those qualities in good ways.
- When talking with someone, ask them about them and their situation, don’t talk about yourself.
- If your friend is grieving a loved one, encourage them to talk about the person and listen well.
- Give words of blessing. When we bless others, we release the blessing of God on them.
- Put together a care package. Who wouldn’t want to receive a tangible box of love and encouragement?
- Smile. Often. A smile can change the trajectory of someone’s day.
- Extend neighborly kindness and encouragement. Bake and share….especially warm from oven. Have phone numbers of several neighbors so you can go down a list to find one at home to bless with your fresh-baked goodness.
- Be a positive, joyful person. We can only encourage, love, and bless others with what we already have.
- Fill jelly jars with flowers picked from your garden. Drop by a nursing home with them and bless the residents there.
- Promote a friend or acquaintance for the things they do. (Including their business). Everyone needs a cheerleader.
- Ask someone for information on something they love or excel at and listen closely.
- Treat your co-worker with something small every now and then: a candy bar, their favorite coffee, a fun pen, etc.
- Give a sincere compliment.
- Let someone know they are important to you by turning off your cell phone when someone starts sharing with you.
- Write down a Bible verse that meets the need of your friend’s heart and send it in the mail, or text it, or post it on their Facebook wall for encouragement.
- Slip a little card in a co-workers mailbox thanking them or recognizing them for something in the workplace.
- Find a way to remember to pray for a friend. One gal who doesn’t get to see her friend often has a pact with that friend to listen at night for the train whistles. It’s their signal to pray for each other.
- Random acts of kindness have a powerful ripple effect.
And for good measure…two more.
- Give a toy. Play is under-rated and helps produce lots of smiles.
- If you see someone doing something kind for another person….recognize that act.
Day 30 Challenge: Pick one or two “ways” from the list above and encourage others. There are a year’s worth of ideas to do, a week at a time, start this week and strategically plan to encourage those within your circle of influence. Decide to be known as an encourager.
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